Okay, so....
I just got back a little while ago from working in the kitchen for a large wedding reception. Next week, I will be working for an even more huge one. I'm talking around 250 people today and planning for about 350 to 400 next week. This is just the receptions!
So just for the record, large weddings are completely ridiculous and extravagance is pointless. Now, don't misunderstand me: weddings are wonderful and wanting to share the joy of the occasion is good, usually, but often they are far too over done and well, plain ridiculously impractical. For those who don't know me very well, I might as well just tell you: I'm extremely practically minded. I get in trouble for it many times. Honestly, if you have so many guest that once you finish greeting it is time for people to start the farewells, I believe that would be an excellent indicator there are way too many. After all, isn't the whole wedding stuff and thereafter supposed to be about the bride and groom, not the guest feeling comfortable and included?
But what do I know? I've never planned a wedding.
So, what do y'all think? Is it more important to include everyone and make it large or focus on the couple and invite just the close friends and family? How would you determine a good balance?